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Now is the time

What does it take to move you to action? Maybe you are an activator. You hate to wait. Before all the words are spoken your feet are heading out the door making it happen. Perhaps you are more wired to deliberate by fully considering every angle to every obstacle before choosing to act. No matter your wiring for action this pandemic season for many feels like a halt. A delay to dreams and plans. I…

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May all your troubles be little ones.

Frank Features – Little Vignettes In my father’s USNA 20th class reunion yearbook Dad wrote how his best man gave this wedding toast , “May all your troubles be little ones.” Dad’s end cap to that toast 20 years and 12 kids later was all my troubles were little ones(kids)! This toast has come to be part of our tradition at our family weddings! Faith My father kept a home office in our basement. When…

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Questions not answers

“When I was young, I had all the answers but no one asked me any questions. Now I am old and I am asked questions but I do not know the answer.”  Attributed to Elizabeth Elliott I was always quick with an answer and still am. I am also quick with a question but slow to listen. I am trying to reverse my impulse and move more to be slow to answer and quick to…

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Mary, Mary, Quite Contrary

When I was a little girl my father would sing nursery rhymes to us. This one always got my attention. Mary, Mary, quite contrary,How does your garden grow?With silver bells, and cockle shells,And pretty maids all in a row. While I loved the nursery rhyme, I hated the thought that I was contrary. Contrarian – opposing or rejecting popular opinion; going against current practice. While I hate the thought of being contrary, here’s the thing. I am.…

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One small step

As we see what is unfolding before us in a world of pandemic, racial divides, and economic uncertainty we desire greatly great changes in our society. Patient and slow have worn out its welcome. We want the change now. We need the change now. While it seems too trite it does remain true that the only change we can address and effect starts with one – me. Today I am sharing an excerpt from a…

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